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Watch out for these s and save yourself the journey of emotional destruction of a toxic relationship:. If someone gets really interested in you too soon and tries to get close too fast, wave the red flag. If they ask you questions about everything that has happened in your life, you may feel as though they are just really interested and want to get to know you. You may even find this attention quite flattering and describe it as an instant connection. I had a client recently that experienced this very thing and unfortunately, they were just looking for weaknesses and vulnerabilities that they could undermine them with at a later date.
If anyone tries to move too fast and gets close too soon, learn to slow down the pace and set boundaries. Wait until you get to know them and have built up a certain amount of trust. When someone lacks consistency, I mean their words matching their deeds. We see what we want to see around how we want that person to be instead of trusting what we are seeing with our eyes.
When you lose your centre, it is because what is going on around you is throwing you off balance. Your subconscious has an awareness that directs you, and you will unlikely be aware of this is happening. If you feel a tension in your body or tightness in your stomach when you are with someone, your subconscious is uncomfortable with their energy and is letting your body know! If someone opens up to you quickly with stories about how terrible their past might have been, past partners or parents and look for comfort, they could be looking to be rescued.
Now this may make you feel as though you can help them, but you are letting yourself in for a heap of difficulty.
They will unlikely want to change what they get from the attention and you will never be able to satiate their needs! Point them in the direction of a good coach and go and find someone else that can be there for you as much as you want to be there for someone else. The key ingredient that determines a happy and healthy relationship is the absence of co-dependency.
If you are both co-dependent then you will drive each other crazy as neither of you will ever be able to meet the needs of the other.
We all need to learn how to be ourselves and live independently. If you find that you find yourself attracting these types of relationships into your life or think you may have some kind of co-dependency and would like to change the success of your relationships, then use the contact for your confidential free consultation.
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5 Red Flags of a Toxic Relationship