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Have you ever felt like this person who reached out to us? One week, he was telling me how much he loved me. I never thought I would go back to being alone so soon, but everyone keeps telling me I need to pick up the pieces and move on. How do I do that? What am I supposed to do without this person I thought I was going to share my life with?
Heartbreak is always tough. But it can be devastating in a way that really derails us, especially when:. There are steps you can take, one day at a time, to move forward and get back to feeling like yourself again. That means we may not be able to get the help we really need, and we may end up feeling stuck in a loop of negative emotions. On the other hand, naming as many feelings you can when your heartbreak brings them up is an important step toward getting the specific, unique support you need. Try it just once a day to start with.
You might be surprised how much you learn about yourself, and about your life, in the process. There will be ups and downs as you cope with heartbreak. Other times, you may feel exhilarated and free, like you get to start fresh and redefine yourself.
These feelings are normal, and a part of the grieving and healing process. As you continue to make efforts to talk about and work through your feelings from day to day, your emotions will shift and change over time. Just start with how you feel about it today, and work from there. That can certainly help you feel less alone and isolated, but avoiding comparison is important. But there are plenty of people who have been on this journey, and have come out the other side, who will offer understanding and a listening ear along the way.
There is some goodness about situations and people, even the complicated and difficult ones. It may not be possible to find good things to hold on to about someone, depending on the reasons the relationship went south.
Just work with whatever you have. Rather than filling it with unkind thoughts toward yourself, or unhealthy behaviors, you can branch out and try something new:. Did you know God sees you as precious, loved, and a masterpiece? If you are open to finding time to pray each day or each week, it may be a great comfort to discover what the Creator of the universe has to say about you. Any of these are great opportunities to growlearn, have fun, and find joy, which you can still do even with a broken heart.
Maybe you two can start exercising together, do a book club with some of your favorite books, or take a free online course. There are lots of things out there waiting to be tried that are healthy distractions from a heartbreaking situation.
Even with the best intentions, heartbreak can seem to take over your body and mind. You can talk to a faith leader, a counselor, or a trusted friend. TheHopeLine offers mentoring via chat and to support you during this tough time. Talk to one of our HopeCoaches today to sort through heartbreak and find a path forward. We are here for you. Save my name,and website in this browser for the next time I comment. Life is Messy. And without support, many lose hope that things will ever get better. We want you to know that you are NOT alone. Founded over 25 years ago by youth speaker and radio host, Dawson McAllister, we have heard the struggles people face and learned how to offer life-changing support.
Our mission is to reach, rescue and restore those who are broken and hopeless. We encourage people in the midst of their struggles by providing clear thinking and right values. If you are in need of immediate help.
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MOVING ON FROM A BREAK UP - PICKING UP THE PIECES