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Usually when confronted with these questions I have a stock answer, which is simply that, were I writing for a male audience, of course I would have a great deal more to say about what men should be doing to impress women and improve themselves and I have much to say on both. But then I realized: it can only be a constructive and useful exercise to talk about how the best men ought to behave in relationships.
But it never hurts to be reminded of the standard of treatment you should expect from any man in a relationship.
A great guy has no interest in seeing you scale back your ambitions so that he can feel good about himself. On the contrary, he loves to see you flourish. For him, supporting your success only means more excitement and adventure. He loves seeing what you make of your life and cares about protecting your dreams. A man worth being with delights in seeing you handle your own life even if he loves to help now and thenand will want to encourage anything that promotes your autonomy and independence.
While every man loves to feel needed, only insecure daddy-type guys seek to acquire importance by seeing you helpless and entirely dependent on them. Showing him that you notice and appreciate his listening skills is the best way to get more of it. You need help with your university paper and want someone to come and read it at 4am the night before submission? You need to be saved from your family? Be warned: high-value guys have high expectations. To your face. Like a man. High value guys limit the amount of time they spend wallowing in self-pity after a setback.
They are responsive in the face of failure and spring into action at the sight of problems rather than falling apart. And vulnerable. Which is a good thing. This is essentially the philosophy of a high value guy. A guy who is great relationship material says nothing idly. Because he cares about big ideas like Truth and Honesty.
He seeks success because he wants to fulfil his potential, not because he arbitrarily wants a bigger paycheck. What Ogilvy meant by this is that leaders in life are willing to do the difficult action that no-one else will. This is the same of any high-value guy. He confronts problems. He makes the difficult phone call.
Which is why others respect him and look up to him. Maybe it sounds romantic to think of the Edward Cullen obsessive-love type boyfriend, but in the real world a high-value guy is capable of falling loving without obsessing he can still be passionate and intense, just not in the creepy stalker-esque way vampire romance novels portray it.
Guys who are well-balanced have multiple sources of joy in their world. Fulfilling work. All of these are important to him, even if eventually you become the most important thing to him. As mentioned earlier, high value guys want to make you happy. And this means they listen.
They look for clues. They are endlessly curious about you as their partner and want to understand your mind. Even high-value guys will sometimes get it completely wrong and screw up badly we have to be realistic, after all. He can be intellectual and deep, but he can also be exciting and totally silly. The high-value guy who is serious about you will want to make you the strongest team in the world. Let me know in the comments below! Stephen Hussey helped co-write the Get The Guy book and is a wealth of knowledge on dating and relationships. Notify me of follow-up comments via e-mail.
I only wish there were men like that out there in my part of the world…. And in addition to my question. Stephen do you think that a high value man, would be tolerant to be with a high value woman TO BE? Do you think that this high value man would encourage her or be supportive, or even just show her, give her a tip time to time and be patient about it?
I mean at the end of the day we are all humans, we learn everyday, we want to get better and better at everything including ourselves. And couples are learning and exploring from each other everyday and if they have the desire than everything is possible. Thank you very much in advance!
I am waiting impatiently and i am curious about your answer Stephen. That was a great post, thank you very much Stephen! So my question is:Do you think that a high value man would be attracted to a high value woman, who is not that successful at the moment at her work for example, but she has passion to develop. In other words, obviously high value men are usually very successful in their area of work, so do you think that it is necessary the woman to be that successful like them to be noticed and do you think that a high value man can notice that high value woman, who is not at his circles or who is not at his league, or who is not that successful in business or personal life at the moment, but she strives to be.
I hope I was clear enough : Thank you Stephen! Incredibly instructive and useful Matthew! Kind of important, lol. Thank you :. On that note women, especially western women bring nothing of value to the table and they are welfare recipients who use the state to take from men because they are not equal and not independent. A real man lives with purpose and not the purpose of pandering to a lesser being like a woman. I assume that I already found my perfect match bcoz of this traits that you write about.
I mean my question, this type of guy is an ideal man that can be marrying type? Hi Salma! Right community every month. To get a day free trial of Fast Track to Mr. Right, at support howtogettheguy. That is a great article, thank you. What suggestions do you have for dating a single father? Love how his priority is his children but I would also like to spend time with him. He knows women only want to suck the life out of a man. He avoids and ignores them. Thoughtful and well written Stephen!! I really thought about it and I couldnt add anything more about this High Value Guy!
Its recognizing him when when he is in your life that is KEY!! Thank you for taking time to write this lovely blog! Its recognizing him when whe he is in your life that is KEY!! True enough. But to have a unique pairing character, that need knowledge on social skill and also experience. Which is hard to find. It changed my world. I knew what to look for, could quickly weed out the ones that were definitely low-value and when I met someone who was high-value I knew how I needed to be too to attract and keep him. Thank you from the bottom of my heart!!
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